All about Aries Woman

Aries woman: March 21 – April 19

 

Introduction

A shooting star leaving a trail of blaze on the inky blue sky… liken this scene with an Aries woman and you will know what a true fire sign is. Just like her male counterpart, an Aries woman shows sparks of vigour and strength of character. Although aggression figures in largely in her attitude, there are Aries women who are more placid too. But both the kinds are like a shining star, unrivaled in its glory and complete in its own radiance.

Extremely conscious of her self, the Aries female is fearless, strong and egocentric. To her the world revolves around her. What she does or thinks is of utmost importance… while others are neglected or sidelined in the bargain.

She takes the term ‘extreme’ to her heart. She loves in extremes, she hates in extremes and generally lives life on the extreme. If she loves you, you will be the core of her existence, but if she dislikes you… nah! There’s no word like dislike for her… its simple hatred. That’s what I call living life in black and white!

How to identify an Aries woman in a crowd?

 

With a body language that bespeaks boldness, the Aries girl will talk with authority and look at you in the eye with unabashed confidence. Not one to mince words, it is easy to spot her in a social setup as she will be the one most vocal with her opinions. She will give you her undivided attention… but only so long as your conversation interests her. the minute she finds it boring, she will start looking around with impatience.

Another give away of the Aries female is her ‘do-it-myself’ stance. She will rush to get her own drink, pull up her own chair and carry her own bags without much ado. But that’s not saying that she won’t expect men around her to behave in a gentlemanly fashion. It’s just that she is too independent to seek assistance, especially from men.

How is her appearance?

An Aries woman has sharp arresting features and a strong jaw line. You will usually see her making a statement with her attire. She is fond of dressing well and likes people to notice her style, but no flashy clothes will do for her, her sense of style is very subtle yet effective. With making a statement I don’t mean she will always be dressed to kill, but whatever she wears will have a certain swagger to it.

What are her most striking characteristics?

With the sensational election of Barack Obama as the President of USA, America’s first ever woman president doesn’t seem an impossible dream. And I am sure there are a lot many female Arians aspiring to step into the White House. With a persistent urge to lead and be numero uno in everything, an Aries woman comes with a natural knack of leadership.

She is full of energy and vitality, which also makes her restless. She is constantly on a lookout for new enterprises to utilize her energy. With never a moment to spare she is on a whirlwind mission to complete tasks within the standards she has set for herself. Her aspirations are always high and she usually lands up expecting as much out of others as she does from her own self.

Is there more to her personality?

Of course there is! I have come across Aries women that are highly focused on all fronts. At work they outshine others with their ambitious and competitive spirit. In the role of a home maker, you will find them competent at just about anything, from cleaning herself or overseeing/supervising the cleaning the house to cooking and from doing the dishes to taking care of the family and pets. She likes to be in CONTROL!

She also wants and yearns to be independent. Financial dependency leads to frustration in an Aries woman. She likes to do things her own way, including money matters. Apart from earning money, she is also enamored by the fame attached to a work well done. Like in everything else, she is an early bird at earning a living as well. Don’t be surprised if you see her doing odd jobs to earn those extra bucks.

What’s on her flip side?

Lots! The very traits that set her apart when taken to the extreme can turn darker. For instance, her aggression often borders on crudeness while her ambition can make her seem heartless. Her low grace quotient, which is a by-product of her ‘throw it in your face’ attitude, can make her an eyesore in company.

Once she flips her lid, it’s difficult for her to stop. Her verbal barrages can drive people away, leaving her with her foot in her mouth. She also finds it hard to take criticism. Criticizing her is a sure shot way of sending that lid up the roof!

How is she when in love?

Before we go further on this front, let me clarify that Aries women are extremely practical. Although they love the very concept of love, their approach is overruled with practicality. After she has covered the grounds for education and career, her next priority is to find a compatible companion. And this search is likely to begin very early in life.

Being experimental and flirtatious, she goes through learning curves as she matures to understand what she wants and what she doesn’t. Unlike the other two fire signs, an Aries woman can cleverly hide her desires and wants of material things. While she can stand by her companion through hardships and struggles, she would make sure she is not out wasting her time with a loser.

Romance is the core of her belief system. So much so that she is fully satisfied with the idea of a complete romance rather than the actual romance itself.

When dating her youshould…

… get used to her dominant nature. That’s a pre-requisite! She won’t leave anything to you or chance. She will supervise everything and a date with her will be a complete foolproof deal. A few meetings down the lane and she is likely to pop in before a date to check what clothes you are planning to wear to meet her.

The Aries woman likes to take the lead in everything, dating being no exception. Don’t be surprised if she asks you out first. Although she has a dominating persona, she isn’t masculine or tomboyish. You will find her feminine in many subtle ways.

She loves the thrill and adventure, not to mention the risk,of dangerous stuff. Dare her to a task and you will see the best in her. Since she likes challenges, it isn’t a bad idea to invite her to a friendly game of go-carting. Although with her strong competitive streak, no game is ever going to be friendly.

Compatibility quotient:

They say one must fight fire with fire. I don’t know how true that is technically but amongst zodiac signs too much of fire can result in explosions. The fiery nature of the Aries girl needs a match that’s cool and down to earth and yet one that has traits to equal her passionate nature. Compatibility with an Aries female is much more than a play of fire and ice.

Aries woman and…

Aries man: 3.5/10. There’s too much of fire in between these two for a long term relationship to work out. With ego, dominating nature, temper and impatience in both, it is an unlikely match.

Taurus man: 6.5/10. This combination can work only if both are ready for compromises. She will have to curb her extrovertish nature and unruly tongue, while he will have to learn to give her space. Money can be a bone of contention between these too as the Taurean is extremely cautious with it, while the Arian is extravagant.

Gemini man: 9/10. Here’s a good one. Both are highly charged individuals. The Gemini man is intelligent enough to accept the free spirit of the Arian. She will be instantly floored with his charm and romantic nature.

Cancer man: 7/10. This relationship can work out in a long run if both are able to check their obstinacy. The Aries girl will have to understand his moodiness and sedentary nature while the Cancer guy will have to respect her spirited and outgoing nature.

Leo man: 8/10. Great chemistry here! The Leo man has as much confidence and masculinity as required to impress the Arian girl. She is capable of taking care of his emotional needs and weak ego, while he is capable of giving her the luxuries of life.

Virgo man: 7/10. This match can go a long way in spite of the inherent differences. The Aries woman should learn to get used to his cautious and organized nature and also to keep her adventurous streak under check.

Libra man: 7/10. Again a good match in spite of the differences. The Arian will have to exercise the last ounce of her patience to deal with the indecisiveness of the Libran man. But he is quite capable of taking care of her and his idea of romance is also likely to suit him to a tee.

Scorpio man: 6/10. The differences here are rather strong. The Scorpio man will not like her dominating nature while the Arian girl will not take his possessiveness too well. Although they will admire each other for some traits, it would take too much hard work from both ends to make this relationship last in the long run.

Sagittarius man: 9/10: A match well made! Both are attuned to each other’s personality traits. Both are impulsive and adventure-loving. He has a good humour to keep her interested and she has spontaneity to keep him impressed. The Arian may have to guard her tongue now and then, but apart from that they make a compatible pair.

Capricorn man: 7/10: Capricorn man and Aries woman are poles apart but oppoites do attact. She is vivacious while he could be somber; she is expressive while he is not sometimes. But patience and tolerance can do wonders to this relationship.

Aquarius man: 8/10: The Aquarius man is unconventional enough to suit the Arian taste. Her sharp and astute mind will prove to be a turn on for him. With little bit of understanding about each other’s temperament and need for space, they can hit it off superbly.

Pisces man: 7/10: Although both are emotional, their emotional needs are quite different. Her aggressiveness might hurt the sensitive Piscean nature. She will like his mystic mind and with her intelligence can help him find his way in this materialistic world.

Aries womenCelebrities/Personalities:

Sarah Jessica Parker

Mariah Carey

Jaya Bachchan

Rani Mukerjee

All about Aries Man

Aries man  March 21-April 19

 

Introduction:

King James I once said…I can make a lord, but only God can make a gentleman. Well thankfully, God did His bit in blessing us with the quintessential gentleman in the Aries man! Charming, attractive, dominating, energetic, humorous and above all chivalrous, the Arian male is the amalgamation of all things good.

A man of action, he makes his presence felt just by his very existence! At a party you can spot him behind the bar mixing drinks or at a night club he will be the one bullying the DJ to play his favourite tracks. But wherever he is you can surely see his aura spreading radiantly across the room and people around naturally gravitating towards his charming persona.

Aries men are usually aggressive and energetic and are constantly in the whirlpool of activity. While the aggressive kinds have majority stake under this zodiac sign, there are also the passive types who are usually quiet, observant and speak only when spoken to. 80% of them would be classified as aggressive and 20% as passive. Within the 80% there are certain types who have a dark side to them. While they may have some core characteristics like being compassionate at times but are mostly self centered.  I have encountered such type of Aries men and for the record, most of the above and what is written ahead does not hold true for them.

How to identify an Aries man?

 

Aries men are usually bursting at seams with unbounded energy. This energy stems from their ever-flowing ideas and creativity. So you are most likely to spot an Aries man in animated conversation with someone or interacting with a group of people. And the point of differentiation between him and the others would be his sparkling demeanour. 

A typical Arian will make himself comfortable in any given surrounding. When in his true element, he can discuss even rocket science with easy grace. But when he is out of sorts, he is likely to recoil into a shell.

An Aries man is quick to take you under his wing, if he takes a fancy to you. And you will find yourself on a joyride with a dynamo. He is the one with quick actions and with a quicker mental process to match. Even the passive Aries men are good conversationalists so it is easy to be around them at a social event.

What are his general personality traits?

 

The personality of an Arian can be defined in a word – passion. He is passionate about everything in life… from his first job to his golden jubilee wedding anniversary. You will never see him lagging behind or being lax about anything.

However he is rather low on patience. He cannot stand procrastination or half baked jobs. So if you have to keep up with him, you better sprint. An Aries man is bold, confident and dead sure of himself (and that includes his irresistible persona, his attractive face and his way with words).

But perhaps the most distinguishing characteristic of an Aries male is his dominating nature. Even the small percentage of passive Arians is not completely bereft of this trait. For him dominance is a term that comprises absolute control, total mastery and often dictatorial attitude. There is something ‘Herr Hitler-like’ about his mindset, which coupled with cynicism, can lead to a rather overpowering personality.

What are the finer traits of his personality?

 

Very often with the Aries man it’s a case of your own weapons being turned on you. Cynicism in his nature that propels him ahead often turns him into a self analytical critic. Moreover, it does not allow him to tolerate criticism from others. Cynical and short tempered, an Aries man is usually found to have less self control. To combat his cynicism, he takes to meditation, spirituality and philosophy. Full of insights, he is an interesting conversationalist.

 

Arians are thinkers, dreamers and achievers. Their approach to life is realistic and practical. They are more emotional than sentimental but their realism helps in balancing their nature.

How is he when in love?

 

An Aries man will never tire of experiencing love. If he fails the first time, he will gather the remains of his broken heart and begin again.

His love is full of passion, mounting to frenzy. He will wheel you round and round in the roller coaster of his emotions until you are puffing with excitement. No half-baked love this! He will court you in style and woo you till you are dizzy with his attentions. He will never hide his love or emotions. It will be a jolly ride all the way.

But of course there would be bumps and potholes aplenty. An Aries man, especially the aggressive kind, will be as much a control freak when in love as he is when not in love. He would want to know everything about you. Don’t bother (or should I say dare) to flirt while you are dating an Arian. He will smolder like lava at the minutest signs of betrayal. And don’t get fooled by the passive Arian who appears to be ‘super cool’ every time your mobile phone buzzes with text messages from your male friends. Passive or aggressive notwithstanding… remember he is an Arian first.

You can expect the same from him too. He is usually committed to a relationship as long as he is actually in love. His attention to you will largely depend on your ‘interest holding potential’… the longer you sustain his interest, the stronger you bond will be.

How is he in various relationship roles?

 

Undoubtedly his responsible nature makes him an excellent son, although his streak of doing things his way can make him a parental nightmare as well. Extreme possessiveness and his love for romance makes him a good boyfriend/husband. But be well aware of his obsession with love and make no mistakes. He finds it difficult to forgive errors in love and his emotions are not to be trifled with.

As much as he can be a doting husband and father, he can be equally crude and rude if driven by his moods. He wants his children to be well-behaved and disciplined at all times. He can be like a child with a child, wrestle with kids or cuddle them. But at the same time he is a tough father to deal with you rub him the wrong way or don’t live by his rules.

At a party, you will often spot an Aries man talking to everybody. His ability to converse intelligently and to take initiative in breaking the ice makes him do this naturally. Since he is capable of sharing his emotions because he trusts people easily, he has many friends. But this is not before you have passed his qualifying rounds of trust. As a friend he is totally dependable. You can trust him with your secrets as he is very secretive and expects the same of you.

Is there more to hispersona?

 

Very often with the Aries man it’s a case of your own weapons being turned on you. Cynicism in his nature that propels him ahead often turns him into a self analytical critic. Moreover, it does not allow him to tolerate criticism from others. Cynical and short tempered, an Aries man is usually found to have less self control. To combat his cynicism, he takes to meditation, spirituality and philosophy. Full of insight, he is an interesting conversationalist.

 

Arians are thinkers, dreamers and achievers. Their approach to life is realistic and practical. They are more emotional than sentimental but their realism helps in balancing their nature.

Being an achiever, an Arian sets goals and targets for himself, which need not necessarily be monetary in nature. But true to his core temperament he will do things his way or no way. Frank Sinatra’s song My Way sums up what I am trying to say.

Compatibility quotient:

 

Compatibility between two individuals depends on various factors and not just on their likes and dislikes. I have often found that persons of similar behavioural traits don’t quite hit it off in the long run. For a long standing relationship, a balance between aggressive and passive traits of a personality is necessary. And more so in case of Aries men!

 

Aries man and…

Aries woman: 3.5/10. An Aries woman is too similar to her male counterpart to make a relationship successful. Even the most passive of Aries men and women are dominating and overpowering. In such a case, who would dominate whom?

Taurus woman: 4/10. A Taurus woman will not be able to handle the Arian ego effectively. She is too practical to allow his impulsiveness and he is too fond of his freedom, to like her ‘sticking together’ ideas.

Gemini woman: 10/10. Gemini-Aries can paint the town red… with passion, love, fire or actual paint. With challenges and adventure at every step and each ready for it, this relationship can be loads of fun and full of conversation.

Cancer woman: 6/10. A balanced relationship can be had with much hard work at both ends. The Arian will need to keep his bluntness in check, while the Cancer girl will have to curb her ‘mothering’ feeling. Both will have to bring their emotions on a mutual comfort level for a relationship to work.

Leo woman: 6/10. Great chemistry and a happy match, with full on emotions thrown in! But a word of caution here… too much of similarity can bring the relationship to a dead end.

Virgo woman: 4/10. Not a very happy venture! The Arian will find it difficult to take orders from the ‘preaching’ Virgo woman. Their personalities are too contrasting to result in a healthy relationship.

Libra woman: 7/10. If there’s something called love at first sight, this can be it. Each will be taken in by the other’s intelligence but for things to go a long way, both will have to use patience and understanding.

Scorpio woman: 9/10. He has all the passion and masculinity that she’s looking for and she has all the mystery and femininity that he’s looking for. So far a perfect match! Only both may have to add a dash of respect for each other to sustain the relationship.

Sagittarius woman: 6/10: The Sagittarian woman will share a good deal of her love for adventure and travel and her sense of humour with the Arian. He in turn will impress her with his creativity and intelligence. This relationship can be for keeps if both are able to keep their bluntness in check.

Capricorn woman: 9/10: With the right amount of submissiveness, the Capricorn female can find a perfect match in an Arian. She may find it difficult to handle his egoism and dominating nature, but she has patience enough to be steady with him.

Aquarius woman: 7/10: The Aquarian girl has the right amount of independence and femininity to floor the Arian. She will be sporting enough to take in his angry outbursts and he will be caring enough to infuse their relationship with passion. But too much of dominance which an Aquarian woman displays from time to time could play spoils sport.

Pisces woman: 7/10: This combination can go either way. With the nagging Piscean woman and sarcastic Aries man, it can be a boat on the rocks. Or with the emotionally dependent Piscean and the masculine Arian, it can be a match made in heaven.

Aries menCelebrities/Personalities:

Jackie Chan

Eddie Murphy

Marlon Brando

Rohit Roy

All about Pisces Woman

Pisces woman - February 19 - March 20

 

Introduction:

 

Ever met a woman who looks at you with eyes that are searching your very soul? Or if she looks away she’s glancing around the room looking for Mr. Perfect? She could well be a Pisces woman. Always on a look out for something, Piscean females constantly have a ‘I’m looking for someone or something’ gaze in their deep pocket eyes. 

The Zodiac has been assigned the sign of fishes. There is a ‘possibility’  that there is something fishy about one out of three piscies woman.

How to spot a Piscean woman?    

                           

The first impression a Piscean girl makes on an onlooker is that she is made of glass. Ever seen those delicately designed crystal figures at display windows throwing a spectrum of light? That’s how a Piscean will appear on first look. She will seem as fragile and brittle as crystal… not to mention as exclusive and expensive.

In a social setting it is not difficult to spot her. If you are fairly observant, you will notice a Piscean woman to be totally feminine… she will laugh gracefully at the loudest of wisecracks, she will hold her drink with delicacy and eat with the propriety of British royalty.

And if you still can’t make up your mind if the girl next to you is a Piscean or not, just wait till you are invited to take your seats at the dinner table. If she is waiting for you to pull up her chair, be rest assured she is a Piscean. The true lady will always expect men around her to behave in the most gentlemanly way possible.

How does she score on the following points?

 

Appearance: Here’s one woman who knows how to dress, nay, dares to dress as she likes. Both kinds of Piscean women are always well dressed in an utmost feminine manner. Some have a prominent jaw line, while some have a fuller face (can be because of her obsession for chocolates and pastries).

A Piscean female is as comfortable in flowing dresses as in skimpy outfits and has no qualms even about a little cleavage display or bare back styled tops. In her private space, she is more likely to be in the flimsiest of lingerie.

Ambition: A good number of Piscean women are overly ambitious. This tendency may arise from their love for materialistic pleasures or creating their mark. Their determination to achieve their ambition is not just steady but downright tenacious. A determined Piscean woman will work relentlessly towards her goal; she is not one to shy off from hard work. But her resolve can make her take alternative paths too… like marrying a rich man.

One way she takes to achieve this is meeting the right people at the right time. She has no misgivings about ‘using’ people to forward her cause. It’s not that all of them are like that!

What are the general traits of her personality?

 

The materialistic kind of Piscean woman is aggressive albeit gracefully. She is caring and loving although a little sly. She is extremely impulsive, but her impulsiveness is governed by self made standards. And she upholds these criteria with utmost tenacity. She is so focused on attaining her goals that she is likely to risk or entirely give up a relationship if someone more powerful/richer/charming comes along. To put it differently, she understands her materialistic desires and knows how to get her priorities right. She’s not the one to back a loser, no matter how much love is lost in the process.

The other kind of Piscean females is looking for compatibility rather than material comfort. They are not above material desires, but their ultimate aim is to be with someone whom they can call a soul mate. This kind is more emotional and submissive.

There’s something Barbie-like about her… endearing, naughty yet elegant. She can carry off even a regular outfit like a pair of blue jeans and white tees with finesse. Given her passion for dressing up, she can be a big tease too. And this holds true of both kinds of Piscean women.

What does a Piscean woman share with her male counterpart?

 

Quite a few things… namely compassion, high emotional quotient and spirituality. Like a Pisces male, the female too feels deep compassion for others and hence is a good listener.

If you are in trouble you can trust your Piscean friend to support you and help you look for solutions.

Since she is emotionally charged, she draws a lot of energy from her emotions. Like her counterpart she has oceans of energy within her and all she needs to do in dive within to rejuvenate herself. Hence the essential ‘my time’ is close to her heart.

How is a Piscean woman in love?

 

Having said everything about her desires for materialistic fulfillment, I would like to add that a Piscean woman is actually a romantic at heart. She wants a man who can love and cherish her and most importantly protect her. This is true of the emotional kind of Pisceans, who are generally afraid of being hurt by others.

She likes love to grow upon her… her idea of romance is a gradual progress of things. Make sure your courtship period is as per her standards or she will turn on her heel and disappear. Another reason for this is her innate shyness about love.

When you whisper sweet nothings into her ears, while wooing her for love, make sure you mean every word you say. Merely quoting Shakespeare ain’t going to help! A Piscean woman has the ability to see through deceit and fake charms.

What are the keyfeatures of her personality?

The materialistic kind of Piscean woman is aggressive albeit gracefully. She is caring and loving although a little sly. She is extremely impulsive, but her impulsiveness is governed by self-made standards. And she upholds these criteria with utmost tenacity. She is so focused on attaining her goals that she is likely to risk or entirely give up a relationship if someone more powerful, richer or charming comes along. To put it differently, she understands her materialistic desires and knows how to get her priorities right. She’s not one to back a loser, no matter how much love is lost in the process.

The other kind of Piscean female is looking for compatibility rather than material comfort. She is not above material desires,but her ultimate aim is to be with someone whom she can call a soul mate. This kind is more emotional and submissive.

There’s something Barbie-like about her…endearing, naughty yet elegant. She can carry off even a regular outfit like a pair of blue jeans and white tees with finesse. Given her passion for dressing up, she can be a big tease too. And this holds true of both kinds of Piscean women.

Compatibility quotient:

Here’s a brief summary of the compatibility ratio between Pisces women and men of the other zodiac signs. Given the two kinds of Pisces women (as well as two kinds of men under the other signs), these observations are subjective. While there might be exceptions, the below mentioned compatibility quotient is by and large applicable to all.

Pisces woman and…

Aries man: 7/10. With Aries men and Pisces women it’s rather hard to say which way the relationship will go. It all depends on the Arian’s capacity to be subtle and give her space and the Piscean’s ability to cope with his dominance. On the romance and passion front they may score a nine on 10 as they are a perfect match. On general compatibility they can either be a good match or a disaster because of their egos.

Taurus man: 9/10. This combination can hit the bull’s eye. The Piscean vulnerability and volatility will be balanced by the Taurean practicality and steadfastness. The Taurus man can be quite a charmer and a romantic and that can keep them glued forever.

Gemini man: 4/10. Both of them would need to be madly in love and eager to adjust in order to make this relationship work. The Gemini’s penchant for change will keep the Piscean on edge, while his emotional fickleness can play havoc on her sensibility.

Cancer man: 9/10. A romantic alliance, the Cancer man will be able to fulfill the Piscean’s need for ever lasting love. He has the capacity to shower her with care, attention and understanding, while the Piscean can be her true romantic self with a Cancer male. All in all, great chemistry!

Leo man: 8/10. The Piscean is the necessary feminine presence in the lion’s life. She would give him a good home and he will be allowed to rule it as he pleases. If he’s able to keep his anger and unruly tongue in check, this duo can go places.

Virgo man: 6/10. The barely-emotional and self-centered Virgo man is a complete mismatch for the sensitive Piscean. She will never be able to accept and cope up with his neglectful attitude and any relationship between these two is likely to result in a disaster unless the Virgo male is more grounded in terms of relationship management and also happens to be a romantic.

Libra man: 6/10. This may seem a great combination to begin with, but once the romance wears out the relationship will prove to be very demanding. Both of them would need to look beyond their selves to make their love long lasting.

Scorpio man: 9/10. Bring it on! A Scorpio man can strike an instant bond with a Piscean girl. Both are capable of meeting each other on the same emotional level. Of course the Scorpion will have to keep his possessiveness in check. Apart from that everything will be hunky dory in this relationship.

Sagittarius man: 5/10: Not easy, not comfortable, not possible! This is how either of them would react if the relationship is stretched too long. Although they may hit off on the first date, the chasm between dreamland (Pisces) and reality (Sagittarius) is too gaping to be ignored. But the, practical, easy-going and submissive Pisces woman might score higher (8/10).

Capricorn man: 9/10: Almost felt like giving a 10 here! This is a perfect recipe for a long lasting relationship. He is the man for her…strong, capable and caring, while she is thewoman for him—one who lets him dominate. If he keeps his flirtatiousness under control, this relationship is for keeps.

Aquarius man: 5/10: Here again is a case of opposites. Although opposites attract, they seldom stick together for long. His thinking mind will find her an emotional muddle and her femininity will be crushed under his grossly liberal thinking.

Pisces man: 9/10: Since both the Pisces man and woman have so much in common, they make for a great match. Of course the catch here is that they will have to combat their weaknesses to make their relationship a success.

Famous Pisces women celebrities/personalities:

 

Drew Barrymore

Sharon Stone

Elizabeth Taylor

Cindy Crawford 

All about Pisces Man

Pisces man - February 19-March 20

Pisces Man

The Pisces man is the last sign in the zodiac and considered to be an 'old soul.' Pisces men are torn between the spiritual realm and the real world of materialism. Pisces men may never seem entirely at ease as a result of these pulling forces.

 Introduction:

This zodiac has been assigned the sign of fish. But there is nothing ‘fishy’ about the Pisces man. Outgoing and easily approachable, he has all that it takes to be a gentleman. The only characteristic he has akin to a fish is that he loves to swim in deep waters. Mystery, isolation and sympathy are dear to him and you will find a good listener in your Piscean friend.

When you meet a Pisces male recall the Piscean symbol—two fishes. The fishes are moving in opposite directions much like the Piscean mind. This does not mean confusion…it is simply indicative of the depths to which he can go with his mysticism or the heights he can achieve with his dreams. There’s nothing more realistic than dreams for a Piscean male. All in all, he’s a wonderful companion. So if you are friends with a Piscean, the only thing I can tell you is ‘Happy fishing’!

How can you identify a Pisces man in a crowd?

That’s a tricky one! Unless you are a part of the conversation involving a Piscean it is difficult to spot them in a crowd. Piscean men don’t possess overt qualities that set them apart from the milieu and if you are not keen in your observation, you are likely to miss identifying them.

When amongst people, a Pisces man can be identified with the limited hints that he drops, namely, over-friendliness and opinionated conduct. Certain emotional reactions or comments, unsolicited advice and eagerness to comment or help are other giveaways. But all these signs are quite subtle as he is not aggressive in any of these traits. He is undoubtedly an extrovert but without being vociferous. One remarkable quality that sets him apart would be his keenness to help, with advice or action, anyone and everyone around. While this doesn’t make him a bad person, it can make him come across as interfering.

What are the key features of his personality?

“I dream, therefore I am.” Piscean men are a personification of Strindberg’s (A Swedish playwright and writer) thoughts. Driven by ambition, the Piscean man believes in dreaming big. He is also adventurous and impulsive by nature, which only adds to his ambitiousness. Piscean men with the achiever spirit know how to welcome an opportunity when it comes knocking. They know how to make the most of everything. With ambition also comes the desire to draw out the best from life, including materialistic pleasures. For the Piscean man, getting the much coveted home theatre system or a fancy sports car or four wheel drive is also a part of success in life.

What is his approach towards life?

In two words, his mantra is ambition and adventure. For a Piscean man ambition takes precedence over all else. His ambition makes him aspire for all things good, including material pleasures. His nature is an odd mix of contradictions. Although you will find him generally satisfied with life, he will never be content with what he has achieved. For him each day comes with new challenges and aspirations. But it would be unfair to call him arduously ambitious. Although he likes to climb the ladder of success, he is never deceitful or mean in his intentions. He would rather give up his ambition than hurt anyone deliberately. And remember the dreamer that he is! His dreams are founded on idealistic goals; that’s why his ambitions are based on certain pre-defined ethics. And he is never aggressive about it either.

Is there more to his persona?

A Pisces male is artistic, creative and spiritual. He is highly intuitive and comes with a rather honed sixth sense. If you have an eye for detail you will see him enveloped in a spiritual aura. His intuitiveness makes it possible for him to see through people and it’s not easy to fool him.

But he is also an emotional being and loves a sob story now and then. So he is easily entrapped by tales of sorrow. Usually he is ever ready to help people, by deed or money. Because of these qualities he is often misused. This can cause him much hurt. Given his sensitive nature, things like accusations, dishonesty, disloyalty and lack of faith don’t go down well with him.

Since he is emotional and sensitive he is also easily hurt. Therefore it is necessary to give him space. He uses his personal space and time to revitalise his energies and you will usually find him replete with enthusiasm and zeal for life once he is out of hibernation. He is also secretive, which is another reason for his want of space.

How is he when in love?

If you are being pursued by a Pisces man, you will see the persuasive side of his nature in its full glory. The more you play hard to get, the more he will enjoy pursuing you. He will be all glib and slick in expressing his love and will say all the things a woman likes to hear.

But women who are in love with Pisces men should realise that their man has a goal oriented mindset. And whatever his romantic dreams may be, his ambitions will always be his topmost priority. I sometimes wonder whether ambition is the right word to use for a Piscean and I am using it here for want of a better one. Actually this guy is an idealist and his dreams are his goals. He fights and works to achieve his dreams. But how well he excels depends on how realistic his dreams are. If your partner is a Piscean, it will be up to you to back him in his plans. You need to be alert and clever enough to know if your man is actually stepping towards his aim or merely walking in a trance.

Pisces men are committed to their relationships, but men being men, some Pisceans are no different. They are quite capable of promiscuity although they will not be able to handle it if they’re at the receiving end.

While dating him you should…

…be prepared to talk to a mask. For that’s what a Pisces man is. He is a face with a mask…a smiling mask for sad moods, a pensive mask for playful moods and a nonchalant mask for intense moods. He is a funny mix of opposites. He will feel something and pretend to experience something else all the time. Don’t think this to be confusion or lack of self awareness. It is in fact his way of playing hide and seek with his emotions. He will never show his true emotions to anyone and will constantly endeavour to hide them…even if it means acting out the exact opposite of how he feels on the inside.

Rather complicated isn’t it? But once you know why he does that it would be simple to start the dating game. A Piscean knows his sensitivity is his weakest bone and he completely avoids divulging his state of mind in order to shield himself from emotional harm. In the initial stages of dating him, you would need to get past his reserve to gauge what he is really like.

What does he look for in a partner?

Love is a lifetime commitment for a Piscean male. He thus seeks a partner who mirrors his ideals and complements his idealistic, romantic disposition, thus eliminating chances of conflict of temperament in the future.

With his dreams providing direction to his life, the Pisces man looks for a woman who not only understands and respects his aspirations in life, but also contributes towards his achieving them by being his emotional anchor.

To the Piscean lover, romance isn’t all about physical pleasures. It’s more about finding a soul mate for himself. His love transcends all levels of humanly pleasure and rests on building a special bond with his partner. He would thus, consciously and unconsciously, be attracted to women who are able to touch his soul and connect with him on a higher level.  

Pisces man and…

Aries woman: 7/10. The Aries woman is too self-absorbed to understand the needs of a Pisces man. Such a relationship can work out only if the Aries female shows patience, understanding and gentleness. But this could work wonders in case of a Passive Aries woman and a Pisces man.

Taurus woman: 6/10. With a Taurean, the relationship will be harmonious as both are easy-going and dependable.

Gemini woman: 5/10. This combination might result in clashes as there is likely to be a battle between the Gemini’s pragmatism and the Piscean wistfulness.

Cancer woman: 9.5/10. A relationship between a Piscean guy and a Cancer girl is likely to work out, given their emotional, sensitive and sympathetic nature, with a soft corner for filial ties.

Leo woman: 4/10. This is a case of opposites attract and both will need to make many adjustments to make this relationship work.

Virgo woman: 6/10. Again opposite forces are at work, but there are no conflicts involved.

Libra woman: 4/10. Although they share a lot in common, the essential nature of both the signs is quite paradoxical.

Scorpio woman: 8/10. Here there is a right balance between similarities and dissimilarities and therefore the compatibility amongst these two signs is strong.

Sagittarius woman: 4/10: The fundamental features of these two signs are quite different with Sagittarians being very straightforward and Pisceans being subtle, making it a difficult relationship that will need lots of efforts.

Capricorn woman: 7/10: There is a certain level of harmony between these signs as both are emotional, intuitive and introspective.

Aquarius woman: 4/10: The passive Piscean can never match the ardour of the exuberant Aquarian. Moreover, Aquarians are more practical than emotional, something that just doesn’t gel with the Piscean nature.

Pisces woman: 9/10: One couldn’t ask for a better match! The Pisces man and woman get along really well with each other, complementing each other’s sensitivity.

All about Aquarius Women

Aquarius woman – 20 January – 19 February

 

Introduction

 

Pop goes the bottle cork and out springs bubbly, silvery streams of champagne. That’s pretty much how an Aquarius woman makes her entry into a room. Full of life and bursting with energy, she infuses everyone around with her electric presence.

She is peppy and full of laughter. And one thing you can’t help but notice is her incessant chatter. How this woman loves to talk! There’s never a dull moment when she’s around as she is constantly hopping from one topic to another… giving her opinions and passing judgments.

Aquarius women are by far the most forward looking tribe. They have a modern mindset and believe in living life with a meaningful purpose. The Aquarian girl has the ability to dream big and realize those dreams as well. Its game, set and match for this lady all the way!

How can you identify an Aquarius woman in a crowd?

 

An Aquarian woman is quite easy to spot. She is extremely chirpy and full of life. You will usually find her talking at the speed of lightening. She is capable of fitting more words in one breath than any other woman. She is always buzzing with energy and you are likely to see her involved in animated conversations and debates… speaking her mind, proving her point. Feminist to the core, she is a true original!

What are her general personality traits?

I have found Aquarian women to be very unpredictable. They follow their own train of thoughts and seem preoccupied most of the time. These thoughts are responsible for their volatile nature as they mentally jump from one idea to the next in split seconds.

An Aquarian female has her own set of rules, which she holds sacred. Not that she won’t allow you to have your own too, but any infringement on her way of living will not be taken in a good spirit. Her feminism and need for independence makes her crave for space more than any other woman. Give her ample of space to be herself and expect the same from her.

She is highly opinionated and will hold her own no matter what. So if you are trying to impose your ideas upon her, think again. She is not the one to change her views under compulsion.

An Aquarian female is a woman full of purpose. You will see her championing social causes and lending support to the less privileged. But whatever she does is done with complete conviction and sincerity.

Most forward looking woman of all zodiac signs, an Aquarian expects the very best from future. She is optimistic and idealistic to a great extent and is very capable of dealing with social matters in the most graceful manner.

What to expect from her on the following points:

 

Appearance:

Appearance wise Aquarius women fall into two categories. The first category is of those who sport a tom boyish look, from clothes to hairdos. This amounts to about 30-40% of them. While the rest are very dressy, detailed and extremely fashion conscious… a true emblem of femininity. Their dressing style is non-conventional and non-conformist in every sense. Their daring attitude is evident in the way they dress up and carry themselves.

Ambition

An Aquarian female is ambitious in two distinct ways: she is an achiever at heart and also craves for independence. So when she sets upon scaling the ambition ladder it is to reach the top position as well as to attain complete freedom.

What does she want from life?

She is definitely not the one to go for mediocre living. She has keen interest in clothes, perfumes and all things nice. These comforts are necessary to make her life complete and comes out of her feminine stance. Since most of Aquarian women are feminists, they are less dependent on family/spouse and are capable of attaining the life they desire all by themselves.

What are the finer traits of her personality?

 

The gift of gab that she possesses in abundance is actually her weak point. She uses her blabber power to cover up for lack of confidence or knowledge. She will spin instant yarns and talk nonsense with immense confidence to gloss over her ignorance.

Her need for independence also makes her self-centered. Her attitude takes an inward turn when it comes to proving her point or getting her way. I have often found Aquarian women making compromises or sacrifices to suit their ambitions and not bother about those around her.

Another highlight of my observations about Aquarian women is their intuitiveness. Here is a woman who is constantly delving about the future and what it holds for her. This persistent attention to what is likely to happen sharpens her intuition and you will find her coming up with many inspirational ideas.

How is an Aquarian woman in love?

 

An Aquarian woman can be extremely emotional and sensitive. She is almost childish in her behaviour and can be unforgiving on silly issues. But flowers, chocolates, gifts and lot of flattery can undo everything at a speed you never imagined.

Although she is emotional, she is a novice at expressing her emotions. If your love interest is an Aquarian woman, you may have to teach her to emote and show her love. Don’t take her lack of expression as stiff necked pride. It’s not that at all. She simply finds it difficult to put her heart out and express her love in words. She is the kind of person who will easily dismiss romantic ideas like holding hands and gazing into each other’s eyes as silly. But at the same time she will walk the extra mile just to be with you… for instance cut short her meeting to keep her date with you. This is the kind of faith she has in love.

An Aquarian female is straightforward and doesn’t believe in mincing words. So if she walks up to you and says it’s over… then it is ‘over’. When in love she means every word she says… and this remains true of her even when she falls out of love too.

How does an Aquarius woman score on the following aspects?

Cynicism:

Usually Aquarian women get over their initial cynicism as they mature. With age they tend to grow more level headed and look at things from a clearer perspective. Although there still would be moments of fits and tantrums, they are usually about things she must have or do and is not able to have or do.

Suspicion/Jealousy:

Extremely suspicious, an Aquarian woman is quite insecure at heart. She will question and cross question you till her curiosity and suspicion abates, but that is no indication that she has entirely let go of her doubts. Naturally the next step from suspicion is jealousy. Here again her insecurity clouds her perception.However, I have come across a beautiful exception here. In case of Aquarian women who are good looking and confident about themselves, they are not bothered about these petty emotions.

Dishonesty/Infidelity: Dishonesty will not take her completely by surprise. Sometimes she almost senses it round the corner. However with infidelity it’s a different ball game altogether. She takes this subject very seriously, given her strong feminist leanings. But very conveniently she reserves the right to be occasionally naughty for herself. However, I would like to clarify one thing…an Aquarian girl will never be purposefully indiscreet, nor will she indulge in acts of infidelity without strong reasons. And even if she lands up in a compromising situation like an extramarital affair, it won’t last long. Majority of Aquarian women are highly principled and will not try anything that might bring them social disgrace.

Compatibility quotient

Compatibility with an Aquarian girl is more than just matching her zing factor. To be her partner, you have to understand her need for independence and her deep rooted stand on feminism. However complicated she may appear, the mathematics of her life is quite simple…the man who wins her heart takes her home. Let’s find out what is the compatibility quotient she shares with males of different signs in the zodiac.

Aquarius woman and…

Aries man: 7/10. For once the Aries man will have to let go of his position as the ‘manager’ of things. The Aquarius girl will know exactly how to deal with the fiery Arian. She would know how to manage his anger and ego, while he would be delighted to infuse passion in this relationship. Her independent streak is likely to floor him completely.

Taurus man: 6/10. This relationship is likely to start off well but soon after a ‘war of wills’ will be unavoidable. Add to that the disharmony between the conservative Taurean’s view and the radical Aquarian’s beliefs, and there will be constant discontent.

Gemini man: 9/10. An instant hit! The adventurous Gemini is a true match for the sociable Aquarian. Both value each other as friends and their relationship will grow from strength to strength…thanks to their love for freedom and good conversation.

Cancer man: 4/10. Long term compatibility has slim chances of existing in this relationship. The Aquarian woman lacks the depth and heart-warming love that a Cancer man craves for.

Leo man: 5/10. A difficult yet not impossible match. Both will have to make sincere efforts to make this relationship work. In short, the Leo man will have to think a little less about himself and more about her, while the Aquarian woman will have to think a little less about the world and more about him.

Virgo man: 6/10. Once they know how to balance their outlook towards life, they can hit it off quite well. Since they have very little in common, they have to prepare a meeting ground for themselves. However, they do match up with each other on the ambition front.

Libra man: 9.5/10. A brilliant match! Their relationship will make a great start with good amounts of love and friendship. He is intellectual enough to appeal to her and she is spontaneous enough to suit him. This relationship is likely to be comfortable for both.

Scorpio man: 6/10. The Aquarian girl will find it difficult to take his bossy attitude and the Scorpio man will not find it easy to accept her outgoing ways. He is way too possessive for her comfort and this relationship is definitely not going to be an easy one for either of them.

Sagittarius man: 9/10. An excellent pair. The Sagittarian man and Aquarian woman share an unmatched understanding of each other. He is creative and she is intelligent and both are good at conversing.

Capricorn man: 4/10 This match will demand too many compromises on both ends. If he tries to dominate her too much, there may be a tug-of-war between them over authority and freedom.

Aquarius man: 8/10: Great chemistry! Since both share a lot in common, it is a match that can be an instant hit. But both will have to learn to curb their frivolous nature. Their independent outlook will help them forge a comfortable relationship.

Pisces man: 4/10: They have too many opposite traits to reach a common ground. He is too emotionally dependent, while she desires absolute freedom. He seeks a warm and understanding partner, while she is too involved with her social activities to be with him 24x7.

Famous Aquarian women:

Jennifer Aniston

Preity Zinta

Shakira