All about Scorpio woman

Scorpio woman - 23 October – 22 November

 

Introduction:

Captivating… is the word which can be used to introduce a Scorpio woman. There is something of a hypnotist in her and she knows how to make men fall in love with her and do her bidding. Although this may sound vamp-like, the Scorpio woman indulges in these arts with such grace and polish that it is impossible to resist her charms. She is good looking, more often than not downright beautiful, and knows very well how to use her beauty to make way into other people’s heart.

But her ingenuity does not stop on her face. She has brains to match. The typical Scorpion female has loads of intelligence, a fantastic sense of humour and an innate sense of living a sophisticated lifestyle. Not one to settle for the common fare, she would always aspire for the skies. She is high on passion, style and a certain oomph factor that sets her a cut above the rest! But there is lot more to her personality… and what that ‘lot’ would be? Let’s find out!

 

How to identify a Scorpio woman in a crowd?

Scorpio is the only zodiac sign where I have observed that the majority of aggressive kind of women are born between 23rd and 31st October while the passive kind are born between 1st and 22nd November. When I say aggressive in case of a Scorpion it’s not the regular ‘in your face’ assertive type but the kind which is more prone to responding in an aggressive manner when provoked or given the slightest reason.

There are certain facial features and behaviour traits through which you can identify a Scorpio woman. On her face you can note a) the shape of her eyes, b) strong jaw line and, c) subtle flirting glances.

What does she expect from life?

Much like a Scorpio man, the Scorpio female wants to over-achieve. She wants to be in tens of places and do scores of stuff at the same time. She yearns for everything ‘big’ and anything mediocre is not her cup of tea.

How to effectively deal with a Scorpio woman?

This lady likes direct talk… so don’t twist your words and come straight to the point. Very rarely will you see her falling for flattery – so drop all thoughts of making way into her heart with smooth talk. This makes life simple for straight forward men who don’t like being pretentious, for example: Aries, Sagittarius, Aquarius men.

Most Scorpio women are smart from an early age and are well able to tell fake from real. The only place they find themselves fooled is with fake emotions shown by men.

A Scorpio woman enjoys chasing more than being chased. But at the same time she is not one to make the first move. She is likely to fall for men with husky voices (a trait I have noticed in Gemini and Capricorn women too)… so much so that cupid will strike them with his arrow even on phone and she won’t mind dating a man she has never met. Once in love she will be very vocal about her feelings and will expect her man to be the perfect gentleman.

What is her approach to life?

She is not very realistic and certainly not practical. Although she is a dreamer, she not the ‘head in clouds’ kind of person and is shrewd enough to understand which ones of her dreams are workable. However, her chief characteristic remains her emotional and sentimental nature.

A Scorpio woman is quite capable of being a follower as well as a leader. She has what it takes to be a leader. She is also ready to give respect where it’s due… and accept the leadership of a superior person.

Ambition: A Scorpio woman will compromise on anything only if her monetary situation is average. Once again purely based on my observations I have found that the October born are usually more ambitious and focused on their goals than the November born, who are more laid back and lazy. But both are equally creative, innovative and ever ready to take on challenges.

A friend of mine born on 24th October, a single mother, had to take up a job to support herself. Having never worked before, she started off with a marketing job in a dot com company for a remuneration of Rs 10,000 only. Her need to earn for herself and her family made her work for nearly 14 hours a day. In my entire lifetime I haven’t seen anyone more committed and sincere towards work. She successfully completed all the targets and goals set before her.

Almost after a year of such toil, she got an offer for marketing from another firm, which she accepted. The jump in her package was from Rs. 10,000 to Rs. 60, 000 monthly. After nearly four months of working with the radio station she was drawing up to a hundred thousand rupees, that’s her salary plus incentives. Two years later she joined as a senior official in the marketing department of a TV channel. I was extremely proud and happy to see her covering the ground from Rs. 10, 000 to Rs. 200, 000 a month in a span of 3-4 years. With sincere effort and hard work, she bravely fought every adversity in sight to achieve a sustainable lifestyle.

With sheer grit and determination, the core of a Scorpio woman, she can achieve great heights. In my opinion there are only two kinds of women who can bounce back in life with vigour – Scorpio and Gemini. I’m not saying others can’t, I am only saying Scorpio and Gemini women can do it better.

Self respect/Ego: Regarding ego, a Scorpio woman takes after her male counterpart. She will never display her ego and until you see her at close quarters you will not know how ego-centric she really is. Her ego centric nature is well hidden behind her diplomatic attitude. But being the touchy person that she is… any sensitive subject is likely to brush her the wrong way. Along with ego she also possesses a good amount of self respect.

How is she when in love?

‘Blind, blind, blind’ wrote Charles Dickens in David Copperfield while describing his hero’s love. Ditto a Scorpio woman! In addition she loses all her other senses too. If any man is looking for the classic Juliet, his search will stop with a Scorpio woman. In spite of her assertiveness, she cannot be with a weak man as she loves being dominated and controlled. No, she’s not crazy, she’s simply smart. It is her way of knowing that her man is as madly in love with her as she is with him.

How is she when alone?

A Scorpio woman is much like her male counterpart when alone… that is she shouldn’t be left alone. The devil will start its work in her head the minute she is alone. Moreover, she is a people’s person and therefore likes constant company.

What does she look for in her partner?

A Scorpio woman wants a custom made man… one who is tailored to meet her demands. The essential qualities which her love interest must possess are simplicity, the right amount of authoritativeness and arrogance, spiritual awareness and philosophical turn of mind. But above all he should be expressive and able to communicate his emotions well… much like herself. A Scorpio woman also appreciates a man with high family values and this is a trait I have noticed in Capricorn women too.

How does she score on the following aspects?

Cynicism: A Scorpio woman is generally not cynical. But the achiever in her can turn the tide of her attitude. In order to attain her targets, be it at work, in business or simply to prove herself, her thinking can take a turn towards cynicism. Another thing that can make a Scorpio woman see red is when she is emotionally hurt.

Suspicion/Jealousy: She is as suspicious as her corresponding male.It is curious how both display a similar way of being suspicious as well. Although she may not doubt someone’s intentions she will get suspicious the moment anyone behaves out of character. There is no stopping her once she is suspicious. She will investigate to the extremes to satisfy or clear her doubts,with none being spared from the scrutiny, be it family or friend.

Dishonesty/Infidelity: If a Scorpio woman is completely in love and into a committed relationship, she is incapable of indulging even in casual flirting with anyone else, let alone thinking of an adulterous alliance. And if she ever indulges in a promiscuous escapade, she would have valid reasons to support her act…the duration of her current relationship, an inactive sex life or just plain boredom. She usually has a long list of needs and desires and craves for the fulfillment of all of them.

Compatibility quotient

Each zodiac sign brings along a different lesson on compatibility. While sensitivity might be the highlight of a relationship, it might be a bone of contention for another. Since the Scorpio woman is high on passion and adventure, it would be interesting to see who amongst all the males on the zodiac is able to match up to her verve.

Scorpio woman and…

 

Aries man: 9/10. If both can summon enough amount of respect for each other, this relationship can rock from the word go. He would appeal to her for his assertiveness, while she would floor him with her womanly charms. Passion, which they both possess, becomes the key to their long term relationship.

Taurus man: 5/10. Both share a lot of negative traits in common. Their innate stubbornness, domineering nature and possessiveness might come in the way of a successful relationship. Lots of hard work would be required to make this one work. Yet, I must say that I have also seen a few couples sail through comfortably with romance and harmony.

Gemini man: 6/10. Once the Gemini man learns to curb his flirtatious nature and give her the security she needs, this relationship can work wonders. Both are extremely passionate, which works in their favour. She will be taken in by his cool attitude but will need him to keep the romance alive to keep it going.

Cancer man: 9.5/10. This alliance would be full of romance and understanding. Both have the inbred quality to understand the other’s emotional needs. The Scorpio will be full of warmth for the Cancerian’s sensitivity, while he would give her the commitment and security she needs.

Leo man: 5/10. Not a very happening combination! The Scorpio woman’s need for privacy will be spurned by the Leo man’s constant yearning for the limelight. Although both are sensual, there is marked difference between their sensuality, which can stick out like a sore thumb in this relationship.

Virgo man: 8/10. Good combination! Both will be compatible with each other due to their intelligence, smartness and good looks. The Virgo man will make her happy by giving her the lead on the home front, while keeping her suitably impressed with his charm. But here too, the Virgo man would have to be expressive in order to keep the fire burning.

Libra man: 6/10. The Scorpio woman will have to show restraint and understanding to make this relationship work. She would need to learn to curb her possessiveness in order to give him space. On the other hand, the Libra guy will have to understand her passionate nature and fulfil her demands accordingly.

Scorpio man: 8/10. Here’s a jackpot! Both share a lot in common in terms of adventurous nature, passion and love for good things. But both will have to keep their egos under check for this relationship to work.

Sagittarius man: 4/10: His easy going nature might be too much to take in for the intense Scorpion. She will find it difficult to find security and undivided attention in a Sagittarian male. It is likely that he would find her passion too monotonous in the long run.

Capricorn man: 9/10: The Scorpio girl is the Capricorn guy’s dream come true. She has the right amount of liveliness to get the best out of him while he would be devoted and loyal towards her. He is capable of understanding her emotional needs and giving her the security she wants.

Aquarius man: 6/10: A relationship based on good conversation may not last long and that’s what this is all about. These two are basically disparate in nature and their personality traits can come to loggerheads every now and then. A lot of compromise is required to make this work.

Pisces man: 8/10: If both are mature individuals, this relationship can work wonderfully in the long run as both have a compatible dose of similarities and dissimilarities to add different colours to a fulfilling relationship.

Scorpio womencelebrities/personalities:

 

Indira Gandhi

Julia Roberts

Demi Moore

Meg Ryan

Aishwarya Rai

Sushmita Sen

All about Scorpio Man

Scorpio man – 23 October – 22 November

Introduction

Boundless energy is the term that comes to my mind when I think of Scorpio men. They are so full of life and vitality; it’s a surprise how they manage to do umpteen tasks in a day. The fervour in their nature can be matched only by Aries men. But the catch here is with the Scorpion his passion borders dangerously near obsession.

Extremely fond of good clothes and good food, you might find him indulging in either of these quite often. The Scorpio guy is also extremely attached to his money… he is frequently seen taking measures to double it!

While he is fun to be with, he can get possessive of his relationships, especially girlfriends. Life with him will undoubtedly be a passionate affair but like every passion it has its fallouts. Living life in excesses, the Scorpio man’s nature is a two-sided sword… if he loves you God help you, if he hates you God help you double quick!

How to identify a Scorpio man in a crowd?

A Scorpio man displays the right mix of passion and composure. He is passionate about work, help, conversations, dressing, food and just about everything. Around 70% Scorpio men come across as passive in nature but can get aggressive when provoked. And the 30% who are actually aggressive can be passive and diplomatic when needed.

In spite of possessing diplomacy and humility, Scorpio men are reasonably arrogant. It is quite easy to identify a Scorpio man – he’s the one smooth talking everyone, especially women. If not that, you will find him in intense conversation involving money, work, and investments… generally about stuff related to economics.

Known to be extremely enterprising, he has ‘growth’ on his mind always. It’s not surprising to find a Scorpio man getting maximum promotions in an office environment.

How does he score on the following points?

Appearance: He is extremely stylish and fashionable. He is amongst the first few, like the Aries man, to adopt and adapt to new trends and fashions. His looks and appearance matter a lot to him and he is very conscious of the same. Both Scorpio men and women have fiery eyes.

A Scorpio man likes to be well groomed… to the extent of carrying a comb in his pocket. The need to be always immaculate is so intense in him that he won’t even shy away from shaving his chest to go swimming. That’s grooming to a tee, I say! That is one of the things a Scorpio man has common with an Aries man.

Ambition: There is an essential difference between being ambitious and enterprising. Scorpio men are very enterprising and have tremendous risk taking ability. No matter what field he is in, for the Scorpion the sky’s the limit. If he likes you he will not hesitate to share his ideas with you but yes, he can get superstitious about his plans.

Be it his own venture or someone else’s, a Scorpio man is a great motivator. Added to that is his warm and affectionate nature, which makes him extremely popular.

What are the general traits of a Scorpio man?

If there is a goddess of passion then Scorpio men are her true devotees. So much is this man taken in by whatever he does, loves or has… there is no other word to describe him but ‘passionate’. And his passion often makes him go into excesses with everything that he does. Believing in living a larger than life image, a Scorpio man will let his hair lose in any enterprise that catches his fancy… from working in the wee hours of the night to partying till morning.

In spite of the burning ardour he has within, it is rarely displayed on his face. He has a ‘cool dude’ image, which at times is carried to the extreme of coldness. But it should not be mistaken for indifference as he is concerned about all and sundry that touches his life.

Is there something more to his personality?

Yes there is a darker side to a Scorpio man’s personality. There are certain aspects which I have found unique to Scorpions.

A Scorpio man is afraid of death or disaster. He is therefore an easy victim to superstitions and the knick-knacks that accompany it. He will be taken up by curiosity to know his future and is also likely to take help of astrology, tarot card reading and numerology to know what is to come. Apart from wealth, prosperity and happiness, the one thing that preoccupies his mind is death… the inevitable stop to all his enterprises.

Another factor that keeps him in check is ‘public’. He knows his image depends a lot on what the general public thinks about him. He is always conscious of his image… including his dress, grooming, the car he travels in, the restaurants he eats at etc. He is therefore forever striving to make good impression on people around him and create a positive public image and opinion.

There is no word like mediocre in a Scorpio man’s dictionary. He believes in living life king size and has the courage and vision to achieve it. Actually he is not satisfied with anything and is in a constant need to do more and get more.

Is there something more to his persona?

Yes there is a darker side to a Scorpio man’s personality. There are certain aspects which I have found unique to Scorpions.

A Scorpio man is afraid of death or disaster. He is therefore an easy victim to superstitions and the knick-knacks that accompany it. He will be taken up by curiosity to know his future and is also likely to take the aid of astrology, tarot reading and numerology to know what is to come. Apart from wealth, prosperity and happiness, the one thing that preoccupies his mind is death…the inevitable stop to all his enterprises.

Another factor that keeps him in check is ‘public’. He knows his image depends a lot on what the general public thinks about him. He is always conscious of his image… including his dress, grooming, the car he travels in, the restaurants he eats at, etc. He is therefore forever striving to make good impression on people around him and create a positive public image and opinion.

How is he when in love?

I think he can go completely blind when in love. Since he is obsessive by nature he gets so when in love. You need to have a lot of energy to keep up with him. He is entertaining, adventurous, fun loving and passionate. But slightest casualness shown by his woman can get him to lose interest and divert his attention elsewhere. He can be unforgiving in situations like these. He expects his partner to be as obsessive as him about their relationship. Another common trait shared with a Aries man.

He has a magnetic personality and women often find themselves gravitating into his field of influence. But he is selective about the women he dates. So no matter how many females fall for him, he will pick the one that fits in his image of a perfect woman.

An important aspect about a Scorpio man’s love is his concept of the ideal. To him the woman in his life should conform to the ideal female he has in his mind… and no that need not be like his mother

Compatibility quotient:

Should one match passion with passion or balance it out with patience and forbearance? Should one submit to possessive or aggressive behaviour or hold one’s stand? Answers to these questions can lead to a better understanding of what compatibility is for a Scorpio man. How easy or difficult is it to get along with a Scorpio guy? Here are some answers.

Scorpio man and…

Aries woman: 7/10. She has the vivacity to match his passionate nature and he has the intensity to keep her interested. But she should learn to curb her controlling nature while he should rest his possessive mind a bit. With a good amount of understanding this relationship can work out pretty well.

Taurus woman: 5/10. A difficult match! Both can try each other’s patience to the extreme. He will find it hard to cope with her stubbornness while she will be perturbed by his secretiveness.

Gemini woman: 4/10. This combination might result in clashes as the Scorpio man is too possessive to suit a Gemini woman. She is also too impatient and wild to be able to adjust with his dominating nature.

Cancer woman: 9/10. These two can between themselves redefine perfection. The passion in him will be complemented by the romantic in her. He will be able to draw her out and she will find it easy to communicate her feelings in his presence. He can give her the security she wants while she will put him on a pedestal…something that would please him infinitely.

Leo woman: 4/10. A good deal of anger management will be required at both ends to make this relationship work. Both are bossy and impatient. She can get frivolous at times while he will find it difficult to fulfil her desires of affection and warmth.

Virgo woman: 8/10. This relationship can go a long way. The Scorpio man’s passion will be matched by the Virgo woman’s romance. Further, they will balance each other well especially with his emotions and her pragmatism. Her femininity will be an add-on.

Libra woman: 6/10. Not a very good match, but it can work if both learn to adjust. His bossiness will irk her while her love for freedom might keep the mercury of his suspicions always on the rise.  

Scorpio woman: 8/10. Once the Scorpio man learns to take the admiring glances thrown at his female counterpart in a sporting way, this relationship can work admirably well. Both share a lot in common and are therefore likely to understand each other better. However, both will have to rein in their egos.

Sagittarius woman: 4/10: This union lacks the basic essentials of a good match. It lacks romance and depth. She is too playful for his passionate disposition, while he is too forceful to suit her outgoing nature.

Capricorn woman: 8/10: A good combination…that works for both. The Scorpio man has the tact of bringing the Capricorn woman out of her shell. She on the other hand will offer the loyalty and dependability he looks for in a woman.

Aquarius woman: 6/10: The success of this union depends on compromises. The Scorpio man can be stumped by the Aquarian’s constant demand for attention. The Aquarius woman would find his sarcastic sense of humour a complete turn off.

Pisces woman: 9.5/10: Jackpot! The Scorpio man and Pisces woman get along really well with each other as they understand each other’s emotional needs. Both have the indispensable elements of loyalty and dependability that the other requires.

Scorpio men celebrities/personalities:

 

Bill Gates

Leonardo DiCaprio

Shah Rukh Khan

Kamal Hassan

Jawaharlal Nehru

All about libra Woman

 Libra woman – 24th September-22nd October

 

 

Introduction

 

Have you ever come across girls who look at you in the eye every time you talk and are constantly interrupting your flow of words with their ‘come to the point’ instructions? Well, those are the ones governed by the sign of scales… I mean Libra. Libran girls are brisk, business-like and precise. They dislike dilly dallying and are rarely found to mince words. Libra ladies are graceful and well poised to the point of perfection… as crisp as newly minted bank notes.

As much as she is intense, the Libra woman is also emotional and sensitive. If you are friends with a typical Libran, you would know what a fantastic sense of humour she’s got. And it is a sight to watch her do the balancing act with her constantly tipping scales. All in all, she’s a wonderful person to be with.

 

How to identify a Libra woman in a crowd?

To be able to identify her in a crowd you would need to watch her behaviour very carefully. If you are a stranger to her you would notice her interaction with you will be limited to exchange of pleasantries. But sitting in the same gallery she would be totally involved in the full spirit of having fun in solitude or with her close friends.

What is interesting to observe in a Libra woman is how her facial expressions change from intense to absolute fun and back to intense within a span of ten minutes. Another giveaway of her identify as a true Libran is the prankster in her. You may not detect the mischief monger in her (this lady can keep a straight face I tell you!) but she is quite prone to playing pranks. If you are the butt of a practical joke among your friends, chances are the mind behind it is that of your Libran female buddy. With her great sense of humour she is excellent company to hang out with. But a Libra girl is also self-obsessed to some extent, which is why she is misunderstood by people around her.

How does she score on the following points?

Appearance: Libra women are extremely fashionable. They are also very adaptive of trends – from shorts and tees at home to evening gowns at cocktail events, a Libra girl can do it all in a day. She is also quite detailed about all aspects of grooming… right down to her manicured fingers, trimmed and polished nails, well set hair, etc.

Ambition: Amongst all women, a Libra woman is the most ambitious one and sky’s the limit for her. She wants to grow and climb to top positions and titles. She also has the innate talent of knowing how to get things done and perceiving where she needs to be… at any given point in time.

Self respect/Ego: Self respect and ego make for a curious case for Libra women. I have observed that they possess a great amount of self-respect and a greater amount of ego. Many times in life her ego is what gets this lady in trouble. She has a unique was of getting herself into a tight spot… a point of no return. And it is usually her ego that stops her from mending matters.

What are the finer traits of her personality?

There is a peculiar way Libran women have of dealing with people. For starters they don’t want to hurt anybody, especially emotionally. Because of this they find it difficult to say ‘no’ to anyone. Once they have given their word, they find it difficult to back out or fulfill their commitments. To get out of this tricky situation, they start re-negotiating. Because of this habit she may not hurt anybody but fails to make them happy.

A Libra girl is charming to a great extent (I would give her an eight on ten for that!). Like her male counterpart she has a smooth tongue and therefore is very convincing and persuasive.

Being conservative in thought and action is another of her feature. Not that she lacks confidence but she will prefer towing the traditional line rather than doing something out of the box. She prefers ‘stunning’ people with her success and not with her untoward actions.

She also gets easily angry… the kind who is ready to flip their lid at a moment’s notice. But she is a thinker and a rational one at that, so she is quite capable of reasoning and managing her anger.

Is there something more to her personality?

Well, I guess there is! Her nature has an uncanny resemblance to the symbol of her zodiac sign – the scales. A Libra woman enjoys all good things in life but she also knows that these things come with a tag… expensive one at that. So she has to do a fine balancing act between fulfilling her desires and saving for the rainy day.

Another reason why her scales tip to and fro is her need to conform to the likes and dislikes of her loved ones and her need to have her way.

She also has an instinct towards fair play and you will find her playing arbiter or mediator amongst friends and family.

She is also quite opinionated and is open to views from others too. Like her male counterpart, she likes to weigh the pros and cons of every situation before forming an opinion. Although this habit is a healthy one in terms of business or life in general, she takes it rather too seriously in matters of heart. You will have to spend much quality time with her before getting the classic ‘yes’ from her.

This woman also has a lot of tact in her… in the way she speaks and behaves. Add to that is her intelligence. This makes her get along well with people. Her natural friendliness makes her all the more charming. Libra females also have a good sense of humour.

How is she when in love?

Love can completely floor her. A Libra woman is very romantic and gets totally involved with her man. When in love she can be extremely submissive and adjusting.

With love also comes understanding. A Libra girl is extremely understanding of the feelings and situations of her husband, children, family and friends. She is ever ready to help those she loves. But with people with whom she doesn’t share such a bond, her understanding can be had only with a good amount of reasoning.

It isn’t easy to win the heart of a Libra girl as she has high ideals for the man in her life. She seeks refinement, grace and intelligence (a goodly amount of all these qualities actually!) as well as understanding, sincerity and a balanced outlook towards life in a man. She wants her man to be strong enough to give her the security she needs and tolerant enough to give her the freedom she wants. And above all she wants her man to respect her for what she is.

While dating her you should…

… be on time! Yes, and that’s just for starters. The Libra woman is a stickler for etiquettes, so make sure that you memorise the social code of conduct before meeting her.

Let me simplify things here and take you one step at a time. Step one: be careful while selecting the venue. Remember the Libra girl appreciates beauty and has a strong aesthetic sense. Therefore make sure the restaurant that you choose has an appealing ambience.

Step two: She is ultra feminine. You can carry a bunch of flowers with you on your date. Sending her a touching text message just before you arrive would be perfect to get things started.

Step three: Close shave, gelled hair, good clothes(immaculate is the word here) and fabulous cologne can help you go a long waywith the Libra girl.

Step 4 and 5 are in the book and Audio book :-)

Compatibility quotient:

The Libra woman is governed by the sign of scales. She will swing to and fro with indecision and doubt. Confident and intelligent in her own right, she is nevertheless quite laid back. Known to be extremely feminine and charming, how much can she connect with the men on the zodiac? Let’s find out.

Libra woman and…

Aries man: 7/10. With the right amount of adjustments at both ends, this can be a good relationship. The Arian might have to curb his aggressive nature, while the Libra woman should learn to take fast decisions. Both are emotionally charged beings possessing the ability to interact with people. And that works in their favour.

Taurus man: 6/10. Although there are similar qualities, a long-term relationship is a difficult bargain for both. He is too possessive for the freedom-loving Libran and she is too outgoing for the homely Taurean.

Gemini man: 8/10. Wonderful chemistry! Both are outgoing and adventurous as well as adept at sharing a good conversation. The Gemini man will be able to meet the balancing needs of the Libra woman perfectly.

Cancer man: 6/10. A deeper understanding of each other’s traits can help this relationship. Since a Cancer man is not good at voicing his feelings, the Libra woman might feel frustrated. Problems can also arise over money matters, since the Cancer guy loves to save every penny, whereas the Libra girl loves to splurge.

Leo man: 9.5/10. A match made in heaven! Both share qualities that they take pride in. Outgoing, affectionate and fun loving, a relationship between the Leo man and Libra woman is likely to rock.

Virgo man: 5/10. This combination can work, but with a lot of effort. These two are poles apart as far as their attitude towards life is concerned. They would need to come to terms with the disparities in their nature to make this relationship successful.

Libra man: 7/10. This one can swing either way. Since both have similar traits, if they don’t keep their negatives in check, their relationship cannot stand the test of time. However, both will infuse each other with innate charm and their love for finer things in life can make their relationship last long.

Scorpio man: 6/10. In a Libra woman-Scorpio man combination, the path is strewn with potholes. Although she may find his passion attractive to begin with, she won’t be able to take his headstrong way easily. Likewise, he will find it difficult to give her as much freedom as she craves.

Sagittarius man: 8/10: Once they get the relationship started, it would be a ball. But the catch here is to get it started. Both are hesitant to commit and would need lot of convincing to agree for a long-term relationship. They have plenty of creativity and good humour to make their relationship an affair to remember.

Capricorn man: 4/10: This might be a case of attraction at first and repulsion later. She will like his ‘feet on the ground’ nature at first, but later get tired of it, while her gregariousness will fire his imagination initially, only to be burnt out later. This relationship can only work with continuous doses of understanding and unlimited compromises.

Aquarius man: 9.5/10: The relationship between these two will be based on mutual satisfaction. Since both would value each other’s freedom, there would be enough space for the relationship to mature beautifully. Both will enjoy each other’s adventurous streak, intelligent conversation and good humour.

Pisces man: 6/10: Again a relationship that can swing either way. If she learns to handle his idealistic and emotional nature and he learns to manage her intellectual mind and independent attitude, this relationship can be pulled off.

Libra womencelebrities/personalities:

Margaret Thatcher

Kate Winslet

Gwyneth Paltrow

Catherine Zeta-Jones

Rekha

Hema Malini

All about Libra Man

Libra man - 24th September-22nd October

 

 Introduction:

 

A Libra man is a man of the world. He has infinite charm and a friendly demeanour. Once you meet him, you are not likely to forget the casual chat you had with him for a long time. And chat with him you will, he has an irresistible attraction factor and you will be instantly drawn into his circle of influence.

But no amount of charm can help the Libran in making decisions. The scales of his sun sign will keep tipping every time he is faced with a decision-making situation. It is the urge to get the best in life and do ‘a thousand things’ in one go that propels him ahead.

Romantic and carefree, a Libran can as easily shrug responsibility as a cat shakes water off its fur.  His ability to connect with people on a social level makes him befriend many but he shares true friendship with few. Whichever relationship role he plays, he is fun to be with and extremely entertaining.

 

How can you identify a Libra man in a crowd?

In a group, gathering or party, it is easy to identify a Libra man. He is usually the one with a warm and friendly expression on his face and is popular amongst everyone. From an early age he usually has a calm and composed expression on his face which belies  the restless dynamo beneath. During his conversations or in his behaviour you will never be able spot the hurry or restlessness that he has to meet and greet other people. He would show deep interest in a conversation but upon seeing other friends may include them in the same. He has a natural way of networking, which very few sun signs possess.

There is no particular face type to describe a Libra man but it is the calmness of face and sharpness of eyes, combined with sincerity in speech and attitude that makes him friendly. Melting smile, hovering eyes constantly darting from one place to another—that’s a Libra man for you!

What are the key features of his personality?

A Libra male is a romantic at heart and he discovers romance at an early age. His source of inspiration lies not in romance novels or movies but his own nature. Charming and friendly, he connects easily with people. He also has impressive looks and good humour to match his skills. He likes the idea of falling in love and being in love, hence his mind is in a perpetual state of romance. But he also has a strong practical aspect to his personality so his romantic ideas are not baseless or in the air.

Another peculiar trait in a Libran is his concept of fair play. Although he is capable of playing practical jokes and doing crazy things that boys do when young, as he matures he understands the difference between fair and unfair. He can become a strong believer in justice and fair play. But somehow when it comes to his own cause, he would try and swing things his way.

What is his approach towards life?

A Libra male is realistic and practical in his approach to life. But he is also highly emotional and sentimental, which sometimes clouds his ability to think practically. There is something of a dreamer in him and he is also idealistic about life. The Libran is one man who wants to extract everything from life. Like I said before he wants to do everything, be everywhere, learn everything…and more. I have nicknamed a few of my Libran and Sagittarian male friends as walking-talking encyclopedias because of this quality of theirs. Libra males are capable of being both followers and leaders.

How is he on the following aspects?

Appearance: Being adaptive and adventurous by nature, a Libra man is capable of switching from classic to casual and even funky…just to please his moods. For him it is important to have a wardrobe for all occasions, be it golf, tennis, mountain climbing, river rafting…of course that’s besides his regular office and party wear.

He would enjoy following fashion and trends but prefer to develop his own style in dressing, which distinguishes him from others.

Ambition: Nothing but the best will do for our man. A Libran male is ambitious and will work resolutely till he accomplishes what he sets his heart on. And to fulfill his dreams he is capable of working fourteen to sixteen hours a day too. But all his efforts must yield results and rewards. He hates it when his efforts go in vain.

All this doesn’t mean he is not capable of having fun. If given a choice, he would put in six-seven hours of work everyday and spend the rest of his time goofing around. This is chiefly because he wants to do so much inso little time. My Libran friends often laugh with me when I tell them that one lifetime is just not enough for them.

How is he when in love?

If a Libra man is a micro chip, then the only language he understands is love.

Love brings the best out of a Libra man. But the first step towards love is friendship. His natural flair to connect with people enables him to forge genuine friendship bond with men and women alike. With women friendships can lead to love, but not necessarily marriage. Given his knack for weighing the plus and minus of everything, he will not commit to anyone immediately.

But once you have his love, it is for keeps. Not one to back out on his commitment, he will put in every bit of effort to make a relationship work. And it is up to you to keep the romance alive in your relationship…for this guy is a real sucker for it!

Is there more to his persona?

 

Libra is represented by the sign of the scales and you will notice the balancing act becomes an important factor of a Libra male’s personality. He spends a good deal of time (a great deal actually!) in thinking, working out details and deciding about every minutest aspect of life. He finds it difficult to make up his mind…but the only person he would consult in times of confusion is himself. You will rarely find him being impulsive about anything and even if he is…it’s a calculated impulse. Ironic, isn’t it?

The funny part is his mental act of weighing the pros and cons of people and situations, which is quite evident in his unvarying eye movements which offer him the opportunity to scan the entire perimeter constantly.

Compatibility quotient:

 

Being compatible with the charming Libran is a fine balancing act. Getting along with him on friendly terms is easy but eking out a long-term relationship with him is a totally different ball game. If you succeed in understanding the pros and cons of his personality, it would be fairly easy to gel with him. And there is always his irresistible charm to egg you on.

Libra man and…

Aries woman: 7/10. These two can hit off pretty well. Once the Arien learns to deal patiently with the Libran indecisiveness, this relationship will be full of passion and of course romance.

Taurus woman: 7/10. With the right amount of hard work and understanding, this combination can work in the long run. The Libran will have to be more conscious of the Taurean’s need for security, while she will have to be less emotionally needy.

Gemini woman: 9.5/10. Ah! Looks like we got a perfect balance for our Libran man!   The Libran wit and the Gemini liveliness make a wonderful match. They suit each other perfectly and their passionate nature and love for socialising only adds to their compatibility.

Cancer woman: 6/10. This relationship can work only if both stress on understanding each other. The Cancerian’s high emotional needs might go unfulfilled if the Libran takes off on his intellectual trips. Hence both need to meet each other on common ground.

Leo woman: 8/10. Since both are expressive and outspoken this relationship will work wonderfully in the long run. There will be enough romance and excitement to keep the passion alive for long.

Virgo woman: 4/10. Opposite forces are at work here. The Virgo woman’s pessimism might frustrate the Libran while his indecisiveness will her run out of patience.

Libra woman: 7/10. Love for finer things in life will form the grounds for initial attraction between them. Being romantics and intellectuals, there would be enough camaraderie and conversation between the two, but their understanding should go beyond their innate charm to make this relationship a successful one.

Scorpio woman: 6/10. Compatibility will come only with compromise. The Scorpio woman will have to curb her possessiveness and understand the Libran’s need for freedom. 

Sagittarius woman: 8/10: Her spontaneity and extrovert nature will surely attract a typical Libran. Whatever differences they have can be cleared with communication and understanding. This relationship will also have lot of chemistry, thanks to Libran romance and Sagittarian passion.

Capricorn woman: 6/10: This one can go either way. His flirtatious nature and the constant feminine attention that he gets won’t go down well with her. She will also find it hard to comprehend his disorganised nature. Both will have to make adjustments in order to build a successful relationship.

Aquarius woman: 9/10: A bonanza for both! He will appreciate her spontaneity while she will be impressed with his intellectual bent of mind. It is likely to be a comfortable and fulfilling relationship for both.

Pisces woman: 6/10: Both will need to look beyond themselves to succeed in this relationship. Once the initial attraction wears out, they would need to have something more to hold them together. The Libran has to come to terms with the Piscean sensitivity while the Piscean has to realise and accept the fact that he has a life beyond home.

Libra mencelebrities/personalities:

 

Amitabh Bachchan

Bruce Springsteen

Michael Douglas

Jean-Claude Van Damme

All about Virgo woman

Virgo woman – August 24 – September 23

 

Introduction:

Are you attracted to that reserved, polite, politically-correct and emotionally disciplined Virgo woman? She appears reserved, but she can be quite a chatter box too. She is polite but if you hurt her ego, she can sting like a bee. And emotionally- disciplined? That’s a mere masquerade. She is as emotional as the next girl, but believes intensely in hiding her emotions. With a hint of lethargy and a tinge of Nosey Parker, the Virgo woman’s personality has almost all shades of the spectrum.

How to identify a Virgo woman in a crowd?

My estimate says 60% of Virgo women are aggressive and 40% are passive. It is not difficult to identify them in a crowd. Almost all of them like to talk a lot and speak at the speed of lightening, just like Aquarius women. When it comes to fitting maximum words in one breath Virgo women can give Aquarian females a run for their money. I have also noticed that Virgo women like to gossip and sometimes they seem to mind other people’s business more than their own.

Compared to their male counterpart they are quick at making friends and are usually very social. However, there are about 15% of Virgo women who are reserved and introverted.

While observing them, I realized that they are extremely sharp and very quick on the uptake. Depending on their mood they can be quite witty and funny too. They seem to have an uncanny way of matching the wavelength and thought process of a man, which makes them more compatible with men. Ergo Virgo women have a lot of male friends.

What to expect from her on the following points?

Appearance: The aggressive kind of Virgo woman is expressive and is capable of emoting and smiling with her eyes. Her eyes have a distinct quality of catching your attention with the multitude of emotions in there. The passive kind of Virgo woman is extremely warm and friendly and is also very caring about her friends and loved ones. However, both kinds have a subtle dressing sense… nothing loud works for them. You will usually find them dressed as occasion demands. They seem to be obssesed with shoes and handbags and now I know how so many stores survive.

Ambition: There is a wide chasm between the ambitious and the non-ambitious Virgo women. About 80% of them are ambitious while the rest 20% are sheer lazy.

Since we are discussing ambition here I would like to elaborate about the 80% category of ambitious Virgo women. Independent minded and determined, she is often seen having preferences for print or television media or the hospitality/airline industry. She is equally detailed and meticulous about her work and home chores.

 

What does she want from life?

I think the passive kind of Virgo woman can remain content with what life has offered her, but the aggressive kind in her own subtle way has an endless wish list.

An aggressive Virgo female is rarely satisfied with ordinary living and always aspire for a better lifestyle. This is purely my observation that she needs support in everything she does – at work, with emotions and in almost every walk of life. So in most cases she becomes dependent on others for her performance in whatever character she plays in life.

What is her approach to life?

A Virgo woman can undoubtedly be both realistic and practical but she is governed by her moods and the extent of her practicality largely depends on that. She is less emotional and sentimental but more sensitive. This could be another reason why she has more male friends. She is also dreamy and idealistic.

She finds it easier to follow than lead. Although she has a strong opinion about everything she is comfortable at following rather than leading. This could also be because of fear of failure, in which case she wouldn’t want to take the responsibility.

Is there something more to her persona?

Yes, there is! A Virgo woman is a stickler for punctuality. She cannot abide late comers and her patience runs low when she is waiting for someone. Although not short tempered, she can let her lid fly when her expectations are not met with… especially about things she cares. According to me, she would score an nine on ten for punctuality.

Her ambitious drive is well backed with a hard working spirit. Given her analytical mind, she knows that nothing can be achieved without sincere efforts. However, when it comes to work or relationship, she is quite conservative in her attitude and you may have a difficult time to get her to accept new ideas.

When dating a Virgo woman, you should…

…be her friend first! Getting a Virgo woman to date you isn’t an easy task. She seems hard to get as she lacks emotional expression. But if you are friends with her, it would be easy to break her self-imposed barricade.

A Virgo girl is conservative. She is a straightforward, traditional-minded girl and loves routine. Even if you take her to her favourite restaurant every day, she would be as pleased as punch.

She is a stickler for cleanliness. She likes people and things around her to be neat and tidy. Make sure you are well groomed while dating her. You may not be wearing the clothes that are in vogue, but as long as they are clean and well-ironed, she would be impressed. And here’s a tip—don’t wear a strong perfume. Virgo girls are sensitive to strong smells.

Be careful with your spending. The Virgo girl will appreciate that. She also loves Nature and nothing can win her heart like a serene Nature walk. But make sure you have a cozy armchair ready for her at the end of it all…she will welcome your gesture. Her satisfaction will be evident from the glow on her cheeks and the spark in her eyes.

How is she when in love?

Hmm… before I answer that one let me tell you what love is for a Virgo woman. There is only one definition of love for her… true, pure and exclusive. She will not tolerate passing affairs or insincere feelings. Once her heart is set on something, she will move with a determined gait to achieve it. But let not all this talk of determination and ambition make you think she is masculine. No ways! This one is a complete woman and a strong one at that.

While courting her you will have to keep a lot of things in mind. Firstly, etiquettes… this lady is a classic nit-picker when it comes to mannerisms and social behaviour. She will watch you with a hawk’s eye and will be satisfied only if you match up to her rather high standards of decorum. Secondly, underplay… she dislikes loud and brash behaviour, especially if it is about love. Public display of love is a big no-no with her. So keep it simple and subtle and of course genuine. And throw in plenty of charm and before long you will be humming the Jackson classic “The girl is mine…”

How is she in various relationship roles?

A Virgo woman can be extremely dependable and responsible as a daughter, provided she has had a happy childhood. She will remain devoted to her parents if she has been properly raised and looked after.

As a wife, she will excel in her duties as she takes her responsibilities very seriously. With a Virgo woman fora wife you will have no complaints about love and devotion. Moreover, she is also an excellent home maker. Since she likes to be in control she regards her home as her castle and does everything in her power to protect it. Also, being in charge at home she gets to do what she pleases. I have also found many Virgo women enjoying housekeeping duties and other related chores like cleaning,cooking, gardening, etc.

Being dedicated in every sense of the word, Virgo women prove themselves to be genuine friends. They usually wouldn’t have a huge circle of friends, but the ones that they do befriend…they’d hold them very close to their heart.

Compatibility quotient

With the emotionally-latent Virgo woman, compatibility can mean much more than mere getting along... it could mean interpreting untold feelings and unseen sentiments. Being compatible with a Virgo woman goes beyond understanding personality traits—it involves understanding her nature and needs as well. Let’s find out more!

Virgo woman and…

Aries man: 4/10. While contrasts may work well on canvas, it is not the case with this combination. The Arian will find the ‘preaching’ Virgo woman a little hard to deal with, while the dominating trait of the Arian might make her further repress her feelings.

Taurus man: 8/10. The Virgo girl is as feminine as the Taurean wants his partner to be. Both are well suited on an emotional level too. She will feel secure in his company and he would take delight in looking after her womanly needs.

Gemini man: 7/10. If both learn to adjust, this relationship can work beautifully. The Gemini man must take care not to provoke the green demon in the Virgo girl, while she should limit her criticising streak as he won’t appreciate it at all.

Cancer man: 9/10. A perfect romantic combination! The Virgo girl has the tact to draw the Cancerian out of his emotional shell. In return, he would give her the security and affection that she needs in a relationship.

Leo man: 6/10. This relationship demands too many compromises on both sides. While the homely Virgo woman would keep her kitchen and home spanking clean, the Leo man would hardly notice it, let alone appreciate her effort. On the other hand, known for his love for compliments, he won’t take criticism from her sportingly.

Virgo man: 5/10. This relationship can go completely right or completely wrong. With both Virgos being overly practical, there are chances of monotony setting in. Moreover, both can get too demanding of each other’s attention.

Libra man: 4/10. Not a very promising combination! The Libra man’s indecisive nature might make her go crazy, while the Virgo woman’s constant fault finding and pessimism can frustrate him to the extreme.

Scorpio man: 8/10. The Scorpio man’s emotional quotient can be well balanced with the Virgo woman’s pragmatism. He will be enthralled with her femininity, while she will be impressed with his ability to take the lead.

Sagittarius man: 4/10: Both are worlds apart! The Sagittarian is outgoing, adventurous and quite untamed, while the Virgo girl is homely and serious. Each may not be able to answer the other’s need for companionship. He would get bored of her predictable way of living, while she would find his adventurous enterprise too much to digest.

Capricorn man: 8/10: With effective communication, this relationship can go places. The Virgo woman would have to rein her critical nature and possessiveness, while he would have to control his flirtatious endeavours. But overall, both are compatible to a great extent.

Aquarius man: 6/10: After the initial attraction, both might find it difficult to manage this relationship. The vivacious Aquarian will be bored of the sedate Virgo girl. To make this relationship work, both will have to learn to count their blessings instead of finding faults with each other.

Pisces man: 6/10: Both have disparate yet not necessarily conflicting traits. This relationship can work if they make efforts to understand each other. 

Virgo womencelebrities/personalities:

 

Cameron Diaz

Gloria Estefan

Salma Hayek

Claudia Schiffer

Asha Bhonsle

Kareena Kapoor